Choices

I’ve made a lot of choices along the way in my life and when I look at where I am today I don’t regret them and somehow I think if I didn’t go for what I felt was right for me at that time I wouldn’t have been where I am today.

I often sit and think about loads of stuffs, about the people I left behind and if I would ever get to see them again. Sometimes it’s hard to think and when reality hits knowing that there are some people you left behind making the choices you made that most probably you won’t get to see them again.

My life is not perfect but I have strived and along the journey, I grew and became a better person. I may not have everything in life but I thank God for all that I’ve got now and everything HE blessed me with.

I understand that sometimes when you choose to live a different set of life and wants different things from other people, you have to make choices where sometimes you might regret but I guess life is such as you can’t have everything rosy and life is all about the choices you make, good or bad.

But I know someday I will be grateful that some people are worth leaving behind for the choices that made me a better person I always wanted to be. If not for the choices I’ve made I would not have been to places I have been and experience life the way I never expected.

Life is about growing up and you leave people you love and care about behind, you make sacrifices and most times it’s always for the best

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Reality check

In the process of growing up, people come and go, it’s part of life. Some leaves a short note on your journey and some are here to stay. For good.

You can’t choose who to stay and who you want leave and often you think the people that were part of your life once, some forgets you and moved on, yet some remembers you. Some comes back as memories while some reminds you of what you once meant to them and how much they treasure you.

Life has taught me that there are lot of things you can’t buy with money, loyalty is not blood. Enough said. Life sucks at times but it sucks more when you think the ones that will stick by you tends to be the ones who will abandon and forget you.

In the process and the course of all that, we either grow or allow it to hold us back. Life is unpredictable, betrayal is inevitable. There are things and people in life that are worth keeping and some you are better off without.

We live in a world, reality is cruel but that’s what helps us survive through it all. Change is the only constant thing in life, nothing lasts forever.

People come and go, people die and leave the people they love behind, some people just choose to live a different set of life. Life is such and we don’t always get what we want.

Treasure the ones that never left you, appreciates the ones who abandoned you when you needed them most, because they made you a stronger and better person.