God has a way of stripping everything that we think we need, and He leaves just Himself to us. It is never an easy thing to be in that situation; one day praising God for His goodness and the next crying out to Him to make Himself known in the storm.When we have rooted ourselves to a safe place, God tends to rip us out of the ground and plant us somewhere new. We may hate it, revile Him for it, and even reject Him for a time. But when we look back, we will see that we needed to be uprooted, to be changed from that place that was slowly killing us.
God is the master gardener, He knows all His plants by name, He delicately removes the bad weeds and waters the good seeds. He does what needs to be done, so that one day we can look back and see the majesty that He was doing.
You are being made into a beautiful thing, something that God loves to watch grow. So the next time you are taken out of your comfort zone, know that Christ is slowly making you something great, because He is doing it; and He is the greatest thing.
This goes out to all of the people who have been broken but have been strong enough to let go. For the people who have hurt so badly that they felt they could never love again, but kept their head up. For those who feel like going back to their old lover would put all the pieces back where they belong and everything would fit, but accept the cold hard truth instead. For the people that learn from their mistakes and never stop moving forward, even when they take two steps back. For the people that wish loneliness wasn’t a part of them, but put up with it anyhow. For the people that are okay with taking up all of the room in the bed, even if sometimes it feels a little empty. For the people who wake up in the morning with no missed calls, but smile anyway. For the people that periodically miss the past, but are so much more excited for the future. For the people that have wounds still healing. For the people that have so much tied to their past relationship, but break those chains to start fresh. For the people that want to look back so badly, but focus on the road ahead. For the people that pick up the phone so tempted to call, but keep their dignity in tact instead. For the people that never wanted to let go, but had to. For the people that still believe in love even after all of the hurt their heart has endured. For all the people that gave up not because they were weak, but because most times it’s better just to let go.
Patience and perseverance goes a long way. I never gave up on a lot of things because I believe that there is a beautiful side of everything that probably seemed ugly in the beginning. Even fairytales are bitter sweet.
No one is perfect, I ain’t either. I make mistakes too and with every one I make i learn from it and make it an experience, a lesson.
Don’t judge people or conclude too soon before you even got to know them. I always believe that no human were born bad or evil, we all have a side that is vulnerable too. But some people mask that side of them so that people won’t see it and some hurt others unintentionally so they won’t be hurt.
As we grow old, we learn and we evolved. People change as they grow with time at their own time and pace not yours or anyone else’s.
We are all different, we can’t expect people to change for us. Time and circumstances changes people, we can’t force change on people. It’s like when you love someone and they don’t love you back the same, that doesn’t mean they don’t love you all the same. When true love is given, the same love given will find it’s way back when the time is right.
So what I’m trying to conclude here is that, there are some people that we don’t give up on and are worth waiting and sacrificing everything for. It might take days, months, years or even decades, but for whatever it takes it’s only you yourself know what you want and what you fighting for.
Time will tell and no effort invested are ever gone to waste. Because for no one can fight what is meant to be.
Thank you for bringing here to where we are now, only you know the reasons why it didn’t work out initially because you knew that it’s only your plans and timings are the best for us. Lord I thank you … Continue reading →